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Dawn, I will not forget you

1/12/2011

A dear friend of mine lost a special lady friend tonight, they say she overdosed, after dealing with an extended, very abusive, relationship.
This is such a loss of a beautiful and precious life. The world has lost a great treasure today. I will not forget you Dawn, I will speak your story so others may be saved from the same fate.
I BEG those that are in this type of situation: Please, PLEASE know that you are strong enough to stand on your own, there are those that can & want to help you.,Don't let anyone tell you that isn't true. All you have to do is take the first step. Let someone know what's going on.
Believe in yourself, because I do & so does God. I know it can be scary to face the unknown, but take back your life and dignity, walk away, you will not regret it. There is no reason to feel you are in this alone, for you don't have to be. If you can't get someone to talk to in your area then contact me here or by skype: kcsline or email and I will give you my number.

Love is not fear, Love is not angry or hateful words, Love is NEVER physically hurting someone.

Love is caring about you they way they would care for their own body and life.

2 Comments

brigitte charlon link

1/22/2011 07:44:13 am

Dear Kathleen,
Who couldn't agree 500% with you, with the beauty of what you say here, and with the compassion that you show.
I feel totally responsible about this matter, as a woman, and as empowering women all ages, from baby to elders, is one of my missions here.

First I do my best to spread out this message to all children in the world, boys and girls:
" You can let people tell you what is allowed , what is not permitted in the society that you live in, but NEVER EVER LET ANY ONE TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE NEITHER WHAT YOU CAN DO OR CANNOT DO."

And I teach :
YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE CHOICE , and YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE , for yourself, not for anyone else. unless you decide other way, and in that case , this is your decision.
You are responsible for what you decide to accept, to receive or not,
like some one says insulting words to you, DO NOT take them, stand up and know in yourself that you are NOT what others can say. Do you understand that! if not, you're lost. So you better learn it and understand it, for it makes you FREE.
Call me on skype, e-mail to me , ask on my blog or on this blog of Kathleen, I'll answer ALL your questions.
I know, it's difficult to say a woman is responsible for what happens to her, rape, slavery to men, discrimination, but too bad, this is the reality, and what I tell you here is your only solution: FREE yourself, don't call an insult to you an insult, call it : not receivable words, and know that only YOU
and God of course, know who you are.
If you accept all what men put on you, women, girls, that can end up with the burka on the head of feminine humanity.
Stand up children girls, women, protect your babies girls, your children and your sisters, help them to be responsible too. Let's helps each other all women, not let this world run by males only. And lets do that with LOVE.

Kathy Cooley link

2/9/2011 03:47:06 am

Brigitte
Thank you so very much for your response. I agree with most of what you say, However, I cannot accept that a woman is responsible for or causes herself to be raped or other attacks. She is responsible for how she reacts and responds afterward but she did not cause that person to do that to her. She is responsible for removing herself from an abusive relationship, for choosing to not let the evil of another destroy her or dictate to her how she will live. She is not, under any circumstances responsible for causing them to hurt her though.

Thank you for your comment and for all that you do. You are an awesome woman, great friend and are very wise

kathleen

Dawn, I will not forget you

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